Amen! Seriously, I had such a visceral reaction to the "list of anti-feminist (but not necessarily) things!" I weep for humanity when it seems we've reduced everything to simply binary categories, good or bad, Black or white, feminist, not feminist. Critical thinking and nuance seem to have gone out the window.

To my mind, any choice a woman makes of her own volition is feminist whether that's being a traditional stay at home wife and mother or a childfree high-flying executive and anything and everything else in between.

Like you, nobody controls me. They never will.