And the tone of my story is based on how I'm treated.

As I said, the subtitle is intentionally snarky for obvious reasons. I'm not interested in your man, or anyone else's man. I have my own, thanks. And to judge me based on one's own insecruities is just, well, kinda sad. It took me decades to be okay with me and my body, and I am and I do not apoligige for that. Nor do I apologize for saying anyhting I said. Your insecurities are not my problem. I didn't create them and I didn't do anything to your man, nor do I want to (do note by "your" I mean it in the global sense, not specifically you as a person). However, if what I said hit you, as a person, in a certain way, good. I intended the tone exactly as it is, I think you know that by now.

That's the entire point. Women hate on women. Women blame women. They feel bad about how they look, blame some "bitch" they think looks better. Usually they don;t even look better. Man strays, blame the other woman, heaven forbit the man have any responsibility. You can't steal a person.

Can a woman be a bitch and throw herself at a man? Yeah, absolutely and I wouldn't want her around either, but even in that case, I'd expect my man to say no, he's not a dog that humps without reason, ya know. If he can't resist those type of advances, he's not the man I want. But yeah, I get that, I wouldn't want her around either, it's plain disresepctful for a woman to act like that.

My point is, that's not me. And to decide in your mind that I am the so called evil temptress when I'm anything but, based soley on my looks (again, you in the global sense) is as demeanign and wrong as thinking a big girl is lazy for being big when she works 16 hours a day and goes to the gym and eats well, or thinking a thin woman is sick because she's thin. We judge because it makes US feel better, it helps US sleep at night. The problem isn't us, it's them. No, often it really is you, if you're judging anyone based on hhow they look, the problem is you.