And this is why I hate holidays! This is me, not you, but I'd say fuck it all and stay home. Wanna see me? You know where I am, but my ass is staying put. I actually did that years ago with my ex and his family who "mandated" attendance at Christmas dinner. I had kids that liked to be home with their stuff. I worked all night and went to school during the day, and tried to fit cooking a turkey dinner and all the rest of it into the equation....and now ya'll want me to drive 2 hours to eat food that I cook better at my own house. No, nada, nope, done. Just sayin'...