Comparing ourselves to others is destructive and a waste of time. As a younger woman, I felt terrible about myself, I was judged for being thin and looking back now, rather pretty, so obviously I was a bitch and dumb as toast. I'm almost 51 now, still thin, still cute enough and have completely given up giving a shit what anyone thinks. No filters, no shopping of photos and nothing but a little coconut oil on my face. I'm too busy living my life to worry about all the BS.