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Dear Aunt Crabby
Hello dearies, Aunty Crabby here with my latest advice column. Today's question comes from Ready To Shack Up Somewhere.
Dear Aunt Crabby
I think it’s time my girlfriend and I moved in together, but she says she can’t right now. Should I just let it go and enjoy what we have or should I let her go and move on with my life?
Dear “Ready,”
Thank you for your question. So you think it’s time you and your girlfriend moved in together, do you? And if I’m understanding your question, you want to know whether you should accept the fact that she isn’t ready or whether you should dump her.
Honey, wake up and count the yous!
You don’t happen to mention how long you two have been together. You don’t happen to mention whether or not she’s given you a reason why she can’t move in with your right now. You don’t mention having any conversation with her at all.
In fact, all you say is you want, you think, and you want to know whether you should continue to grace your significant other with your presence or move on to someone else. You, you, you.
