Eat what you like and forget them. Truthfully, I avoid eating out. Granted it's for many reasons but one is that I'm autistic and I just really don't want to explain. For me it's butter. If I go out for lunch and order a sandwich, they always put butter, or margarine on it. The taste overrides the entire sandwich. The looks I get when I say no butter, it's like I smacked their baby. Oh and cake is better served warm, both my hubby and I agree.