First, Dick is a dick! A grown woman who owns her own home can have a person move in if she wants.

That said, I read this and every single cell in my body screams. Here's why:

1. He has a place, but she's never been there, but they're in love?

2. al the love bombing, huge red flag,

3. She was 300 lbs now 200, he doesn't like her "flabby." Sorry, but that sounds like a guy who doesn't want her getting healthy because if he can get her to the altar and she dies, cha-ching! It smells like sabotage dressed in an acceptance wrapper.

4. The girlfirend thing sounds suspect to me. Nora needs to ask more questions. Sorry, but this shit ie easy to find out

5. he's done a few things, okay, but so what?

It all smells off to me, but I'm a very suspicious and cynical sort. And really, all you can do is be there when it all crashes and burns. Sadly, as an adult, she's entitled to make huge mistakes if she's hell bent on it.