First, let me say I'm so sorry for your loss. But also, I'm so happy you found each other. True love, finding the love of your life is a beautiful and rare thing, gay, straight or somewhere in between.

I reconnected with my high school sweetheart and the only man I've ever loved after 20 years. it's been almost 9 years now and we're going strong. We're still realtively young, 51 and 52...but if anything ever happens to him, I'm out of the game. When you've had that kind of love, there's just nothing else that compares. I wouldn't waste my time or the time of anyone else.