First off, how dare she scare your daughter! She was a CHILD! And yeah, I get the advances thing. It's only happend once to me, a friend of the family who knew of my mixed heritage actually got drunk and messaged my husband of Facebook and asked him, "wouldn't he rather be with a nice, quiet, white woman like her with big boobs." She had to have been 60. And no, the naswer was no, he wouldn't.
But what I get more, and I'd be curious to hear your thoughts are creepy white men who want, well for lack of a better word, "a taste of the exotic." I guess you could call it the over-sexulaization of Black women and women of colour. Shit, I may have to write about this one....