Great story. I'm one of those women. I have diminished myself for a lot of my 51 years. Success feels like I'm an imposter, just waiting to be exposed.

I think it's conditioned. The woman behind the man. The sitcom trope of the "sneaky smart" wife/

I get it, I feel it. I'm now, at 51, activelt raging against it. Your friend did good. It's okay to do good. It's okay to look good,

We need to lift each other up, not tear each other down. And we need to stop tearing ourselves down. We are women, we have value. That's okay.