I can't even imagine how scary that was for you. I don't condone the man's actions, but being a daughter of a Black man, a sister to Black siblings, an auntie to Black kids, I get it. I get it in a very real and visceral way.
Abuse should never be part of any job. My view of humanity was forever changed working in the legal profession. As a lawyer, I had access to the most duplicitious, evil minds the world has seen...stay tuned....you've done it again....story brewing.