I don't get it. It's like they think I'm supposed to collect babies from every guy I'm ever with....ummmm, no. Add to that, just because I technically "can" doesn't mean I should. I was rasied by old parents, it was NOT fun in so many ways. I wouldn't subject a child to my husband and myself at this stage, we're selfish, we're somewhat hedonistic, we kinda have a "no new people" policy and we like it that way.