I enjoyed your article. Regarding the nice guy, as my mother always said, if you have to tell people how (insert attribute here, great, smart, in this case nice). you likely aren't. I really think honest introspection and self assessment is the key, for both genders. I wonder who these guys that are complaining are trying to date? My gut tells me they're going for the hot 22 year old when they'd be compatible with someone else. I could go on forever, but I better not... ;)