I feel this in my bones. I grew up tiny. No boobs to speak of, but I did have a butt. I graduated highschool at 5'2" and 86 pounds, just to give you a sense of where I was.
Now I'm 5'5", still no boobs, still have a butt, but still see the memes and things about "real men want a woman with curves," "real women aren't a size )" etc.
Real men love more about a woman than their bodies. I'm 51 now and I've met a lot of people and everyone has something beautiful about them. We don't need to be tearing each other down.