I love this! After years, no decades of this kind of thing, I don't even bother. As soon as I hear the "I'm so bad," I'm out. They're gone. Ghosted, tossed, whatever. I was a "proud martyr" for 30 years. It got me nowhere, except more martyrdom. Nope, if you're telling me you're a bad person, I'm going to beleive it, and I'm going to cut you loose.