I loved yours tory and I SO feel what you're saying! I'm almost 51 and am still getting this bullshit from men. I can and have gone out with bed head, no makeup, dressed in sweats, same thing. And it's hard to complain publiclly because then you get the whole, "oh, poor little pretty muffin, must be so very hard" garbage. Yeah, it is hard. It makes a woman worry about her safety for starters. I've written about it a bit, but I really like the way you spell it out.