I suppose we find inspiration where we find it. Personally, Tony doesn't impress me, no more than Bob Proctor or any of the others. So he has kids? Larry King had kids late in life, but he's not a guru.
I get taking the good and leaving the bad. ANd you've highlighted some decent lessons, but for me, I can get that anywhere, I don't need Tony and what feels to me like a fake, over-processed money machine. I can take the lesson and leave the rest, if that makes sense.