I'd never have guessed that your husband had NA heritage, but then again that's the point isn't it? We just can't go around assuming.

I would expect no less from you, LOL. I have to be honest, it's gotten to the point where I'm no longer sad about it, I'm angry. And to be brutally honest, I now get more pleasure than maybe I should in letting these morons hang themselves with their own rope (words) and then lowering the boom and watching them squirm. Bonus points if there are others around so that their ignorance is publically displayed. And while they're at it, they can find the Black half of my ass and kiss it!