I'm 52 year old. So far so good. I still get carded for some odd reason and people mistake my boys for my brothers or boyfriends (they're 33, 31 and 29 and inherited their father's more "mature looks"). I know my looks are an accident of genetics, but I still eat healthy and exercise some. My only vice is I like a glass of wine now and again or a cold beer after working in the yard.

Menopause headaches? What the hell? Hot flashes, insomnia, even hives, those I've had...but now you say there are headaches too? Damn.....