I'm glad you're feeling more confident. I hope the link helps, but am happy you've found people to talk to. You can always email me privately if there's a word or concept that you're unsure of .

The first reason I hated it there was the damn mall! Okay, this was 2005, and I was staying with my ex at the Days Inn, you know, the real classy one right beside the strip club. And there was a mall, a pretty decent one fairly nearby. But that highway! I could never figure out how to get to the fucking mall! I'd be on that highway, see the mall and no, no exit, nothing, and one day I actually cried. All I wanted was a coffee. By then end of the trip, I figured it all out, but still. Also, I didn't love the garden knomes in some people's yards which a friend I met there and still chat with advised me were symbols of KKK membership. That creeped me out.