I'm mixed race and obviously a little older than you. I grew up in the 80s with stick thin white was in. No ass no nothing. I was 86 pounds...no seriously, 86 pounds and 5'2". No boobs to speak of, scrawny as all get out but a 19 inch waist and a 26 inch ass. Nobody was into that.

Fast forward to the BET era and I was almost a fetish object. Think about it, white looking face but booty for days. Creepy! I got to be the curvy vixen I wanted to be. And I paid very dearly for it.

All the ups and downs with your weight likely contributed to your issues now. The media and society is cruel to women.

You're beautiful as you are and the most beautiful thing in this world is health.