I'm not big, never have been, but Oprah disappointed me. It's not fair to tout Weight Watchers as the solution while secretly using those drugs. It's hard enough to try to lose weight without feeling bad about not achieving results that turn out to be false. At least she told the truth....when she had no choice.

My husband is a big man. He was almost 400 lbs when we got back together.. He's still big, but about 270. He lost the weight because I do the cooking and we eat only real food.

The stress of a family and kids can adversely affect weight too, as I'm sure you know. Be gentle with yourself and do what's right for you, whatever that may be.