I'm not sure if you're being genuine or a bit of a smart ass, bit I am glad my little words gave you pause, but do remember, there is a difference between a genuine offer of assistance where it's clearly needed, as long as it's done in a respectful way. She can always decline the help if she doesn't want it. I don't mean for you to be afraid of us at every turn. The things I'm talking about are the things that make us feel unsafe at worst and creeped out at best.