It's really the same side of the coin....that happens to me too, because I appear to be white, I'd had people say horribly racist things to me thinking I was "one of them." I have a special treat for those morons. I let them go on and on, spewing their filth until I get bored and then I lower the boom and let them know exactly who and what I am. Well, you should see the nervous shuffling, the rationalizations, the "Well, you're okay because you look...(you know how that sentence ends)." And those are the ones that have at least a shred of embarrassment about their vile racism. Others get angry, as I noted and think I've tricked or trapped them.