I've never dated a Black guy. I question why. As a mixed race woman, raised in a predominately white town, I was just never afforded the opportunity. Nor was I all that interested at least in the Black guys I knew.

I love your honesty, but if the tables were turned, would using a Black woman for sex be okay?

You're young, and this mixed thing is a complex journey. I think you have a lot of unpacking to do because the fear of scrutny, come on. My parents made me in 1971. My great grandmother, a white Scottish lass, married a Black man in the late 1800s in Canada. THAT'S scrutny.