Lisa, I can't imagine how awful it is wathing the poor little guy go through all this. Autism makes sense, as does the fact that what goes in and what goes out are the only things he can control (to a certain extent and in his mind). I've read a lot of your stuff and if I recall correctly, there has been some chaos in his life. I remember stuf about your daughter, and also how vile your little guy's birth father was being to you at one time. Is it possible he's picked up on some tension or unsettled feelings? I know you're providing an outstanding home and stable environment for him. Please don't think I'm saying otherwise. But little kids are way smarter than we think, he could be picking up on something .

I think you're right, he'll work it out in time. Good luck. :)