LOL, I love your honesty. I don't even want to meet her to get to know her. I want to meet her just to be the bitch I am and to let her know that I know.
As for my kids, I agree with you. My boys have made choices in the partner department that I wasn't exactly doing cartwheels over. And guess what? Nothing. That's what. I act like a grown fucking woman and be civil and give them a chance. And if I still can't stand them? Well, my problem. I raised 3 boys who think for themselves. They make their own life choices, they're almost 33, 30 and 28. Not my business.