LOL, my husband can be like that. He's autistic (was diagnosed as having Asperger's specifically althought that term is no longer really used). he would often behave in an asshole type of way, nad he knew better. I've known him for 35 years, I know he knows better. And hed always pull the Asperger's card as his free pass. One day, I told him it's Asperger's, not Asshole-burgers. He got the idea. And before anyone gets their knickers in a not, this is one person and my experience with that one person, so don't get all upset.