Look man, I don't know if you did whatever got you inside (I know you say you didn't) or not, but really, I don't much care. I was a lawyer for years and there is no justice in the justice system. I also have degrees in Psychology and "punishment" doesn't work. The fact is if you don't treat people like humans, they won't act like humans. You sound l (or read) like an intelligent young man (and yes, I know someone else has to write your words), that got a shit deal in life. I have a son (even with all the advantages) that spent time inside, so I get it, a bit. I'm reading and rooting for you, for what it's worth.