Love this!
You've never offended me. But then again, I'm not all that relavent and even though I'm multiracial, I'm still kinda hot and look white. Oh, and I'm kinda a bitch, that works too.
But I get it. I get it in a way most don't. My dad was Black. My siblings are Black or brown. I'm whiter than snow. It's a different existence. Until I speak my truth.
I have a son, now 29, 30 next month that you remind me of, brilliant, but well, let's just say he's had a past and a hell of a time creating it. And he's skated (pretty much), he's handsome, white and charming.
Self awareness is a beautiful thing. I don't know who this girl is, but hang onto her, she sounds awesome.