Love this! I've gone through the same thing all my life. My ex husband actually told me I was "almost hot", just I needed bigger boobs to be "fully hot". You'll notice I said "ex" husband. I contemplated surgery but decided against it. I've tried all the "miracle bras" out there, but now, I'm learning to love me for me. I can sleep on my stomach, I can walk around without a bra and no one notices, I can run, I don't have the nagging back pain many of my large breasted friends have, so all in all, I'm doing okay, small boobs and all! :)