My heart breaks for you. I'm in Canada, and I know, I know, free health care counds so glorious. We're all up here in a magical world of care and love. Nope. I've been where you are. Overworked staff with no answers, long waits, and I'm talking 12 hours, not 4. The helpless feeling when someone you love hurts.
Been there, bought the tshirt. We need to do better. Staff the damn hospitals properly, give the care needed. That's it, that's all. Bring him home!