No, I was nice to her twice already, both times I've spoken to her. The thing that I don't get and makes me most uncomfortable is there's no apparent reason for her sudden campaign of hate. I just woke up one morning and BOOM, a slew of false allegations and when they were determined to be unfounded, some new ones. The problem is she's irrational and you can't treat that with rationality. Any approach by me at this point to discuss whatever her problem is would be twisted by her into something else. Jesus, I got off the elevator the other day with Rudy and she and her husband and dog were waiting to get on in the lobby and she complained to them that I used the dog as a "tool of aggression" to intimidate her and now she fears for her safety and can't go outside. I came off the elevator. I said nothing to her, I took Rudy out back to go for a walk, which the surveillance camera showed clearly.

Rudy - a tool of aggression - what's he goign to do, lick someone to death? He's the friendliest, most loving, playful beast ever placed on this planet

Yes, I do worry about the other shoe dropping and I can't sleep at night wondering what she'll try next. I know it's stupid to do so because you can't predict irrational behaviour, but it doesn't stop my mind.

I'm just tired of it. I mind my business. I don't really mix with the neighbours, aside from polite chitchat. And like I said, the fact that I can't figure out what her problem is creeps me out. As horrible as it was to be stalked by 4 different men, as terrifying as it was, I at least knew, what they were after on some twisted level. This just makes no sense and that, for me is unsettling.

My husband says she's jealous. Of what? I can't change my face to suit. I can't change who I am or how cute my dog is. I dunno. Hopefully she gets bored and moves on.