Okay, I'll tell you, my mother, and she was old, she just passed on Christmas day 2020, in her 92nd year. She watched the news religiously and her wisdom, and I can't say it was wrong, was "white people are afraid to give thier kids a damn good smack." Granted she was from a different generation, but looking back, I can't help but wonder. She wasn't talking about abuse or brutality, just correction. What I think she really meant was there seemed to be no consequences for kids. I remember being a kid and the line was clear, and I didn't cross it because I knew.. Like I said, it's not politically correct, but her observations were hers.