Okay, so that answers the questions in your paragraph right above this. Men know he's your husband and hope he's not because they want (I hate to say it) some "Dark meat." They sexualize Black women and Black bodies. They do the same with me as a mixed race woman. They call us "exotic." It's gross. Also, what the hell is "Unapologetically Black?" That assumes "someone" (white MAGA hat guy) thinks you have a need to apologize (which we know you don't)...and herein, my friend, we have just diagnosed the entire problem with the US ( and Canada).