Preaching to the choir, girl! I can't count hww many times I've been through similar stuff. Right now, one of my boys has a girlfriend that ...well....fight, make up, fight, make up. Reconciliations always seems to happen around my son's payday, and strangely enough, also coincide with her need for cash. She's a sweet girl, but has issues and is emotionally stunted at about age 14 or 15, a terrible money manager, etc. But do I say anything? Nope. I learned the hard way on that one years ago.