Right???? Intelligence and a sense of humour can turn a 4 into a 10. For example, and I may be saying too much, but I found the late Christopher Hitchens, as well as Stephen Fry (and yes, I am aware he's otherwise ordered), hot as hell. My husband isn't what you'd call classically attractive in mid life, but seriously smart and funny. It reminds me of something one of my undergraduate Psychology professors once said to to the 300 of us assembled in Psyc. 3003 (Human Sexuality), "choose wisely, you'll eventually have to wake up and talk to them." :)