So did not. Your reaction is natural, but let me appeal to the science...Women are conditioned to believe they're incubators for little humans. Okay, fine, whatevs...but what if the little human just wasn't quite equipped? I know your pride and compassion. You'd never want to inflict suffering on any living thing (except maybe Donald Trump, but that's a different story). To me, and it may sound cold, but losing a pregnancy or a baby may well be nature's way of saving a precious child from a life of suffering. I don't think it's you, anything wrong with you, a failing with you. It was a sucky situation, an unfair situation.