Sweetie, I am indeed brave. It does sound like your son got a bad one.
Have you ever asked yourself why your boy (s) were so amenable to manipulation? I rasied 3 boys and none of that ever happened.
So you've been on school boards. Okay. We know where you stand. I've been a mother, a school board member, a lawyer, etc, what's the point?
Are you trying to tell me that a girl wearing shorts in school is what led to all of your boys' woes?
Sorry hun, not even close.
Both genders manipulate each other. It't up to us as parents to educate them. It's up to us to teach them that a short skirt and a tank top isn't "asking for it." It's dressing for fucking hot weather in zero air conditioning.
I get you want to blame the "bad girls" for whatever your boys are going through. Been there more than once. But you know, sometimes, boys do dumb shit too. The story about taking a spent condome full of sperm home to inseminate herself sounds whack. It sounds like what a couple of kids would do to appease you (and she went along for him). Because, you have a certain idea in your mind.
Still doesn't change the fact that holding female students to a different dress standard than the boys is unfair. Sprry bout your boys hon, but you might should have trained them better.