Thank you for taking the time to read and respond. No, I don't like to be approached in the places I mentioned, especially with cheesy lines and leering. That being said, the open letter was never really intended as something that was going to be read by the type of men I'm talking about and I'm sure you already know that. It's what was on MY mind at the time based on MY experience. It's in no way meant to be advice, I'm not Dear Abby.