Thank you for your kind words. It really was a stark revelation. For many reasons. My mother was so hard on me. So was my dad, but not in the same way. My brother dropped 3 classes to graduate with the bare minimum. I was always forced to use my mind and be at the top of the class. The double standards were glaring and frankly, unfair. But once I knew, I got it a bit. So many layers to it, but his accident would have impacted them too, and even though I had no clue, it impacted me too.