Thank you for your well thought out comment. I have to agree with you on Sarah Jessica Parker. That said, you are indeed entitled to your point of view on who and what is beautiful to you.

And you are absolutely correct in saying there is a myth about Black women and in saying that women who behave in teh way I mentioned are acting out of insecurity. I do get that. And honestly, a man is going to to what he wants to do with whoever he wants to do it with. A man is not property and not a pet. Like I said, if I want a puppy, I can get one.

What I wrote is borne out of frustration with the above, namely women projecting their insecurities on me as well aswhatever trust issues they have with their significant others. None of those things are my problem. That said, I often use my writing to rant about things that frustrate me.

Oh, and by the way, thank you for the lovely compliment. :)