The inner red flag is the thing. There are people who genuinely need help and I have no issue doing what I can.

However, I don't feel I owe anyone a living. I raised my boys on my own. I worked 3 jobs at times. I didn't go out. I didn't buy new clothes for 12 years. I didn't get new furniture. I did what I had to do.

Any time I hear someone talk about what they won't do and where they won't work...I'm out. If you're too good for the local food bank or for that job down the street, you're too good for my help.

As for rich moochers, my mother always said, rich people are rich because they keep hold of their money.