The loud angry thing pisses me off so much! As you can see from my pic, I'm I guess what you'd call White presenting, but I'm actually biracial, Black father, White mother. And the number of times I've heard that narrative about the angry Black woman and the "docile, quiet' White woman.....sorry, it's just stupid. If a man isn't man enough to handle a strong, intelligent woman, keep on walking.
Nobody really needs to be married these days. And from my experience, it's better to be whole alone than lonely and married.