They can also be a pain in the ass. I was a gangly awkward kid that apparently got hot at 30 ish. I'm 50 now and wish people, mostly men, would kinda fuck off. I dress down and try not to attract attention. I also am very well aware of "pretty privilege" and of how others see me and it sucks being hated on sight while at the same time being given advantages. I feel bad that people assume I'm stupid, vapid, or a raging bitch because of how I look (and I don't look that great). It's a strange place to be in.