THIS!!! I make more than my husband, I'm not taller, but I have a handful of degrees to his GED, he's overweight, he doesn't drive and...so fucking what? He"s "high value" to me because he's intelligent beyond the education, he's decent, kind and a talented artist. Oh, and he loves me for me and treats me with respect. These clowns can call me whatever, they can also fuck right off. Love doesn't have a balance sheet.