Ugggg! The first thing that comes to my mind is that some friends are not friends at all. I'm sorry, but seriosuly, anyone that cared about you or your well being (which, last I checked is what friends do), would never put you in that position. Not to mention, what kind of person is content to racists as friends?
She showed her true colours eventually. I'm all for freedom of expression, but anyone with racisit, homophobic, etc views are free to express themselves the hell away from me.