Well, I'm middle aged and trust me I have NO problem attracting men. And I'm not out here trying, I"m happily married. To be honest, I wish they'd leave me alone. What you seem to be missing here is that middle aged women wouldn't be interested in some man who women only in terms of thier looks or who chases 22 year olds. Men like that are "fishing in a different pool" so to speak; they aren't looking for a woman their age, and women their age aren't looking for them.