Well said! A lot of times the "fixers" aren't really in it to actually fix anything but their own egos. My ex was like that, he told me (after I'd married him), that he found the idea of finding a young, struggling single mother attractive because he could fix me and I'd be grateful (translation, I'd somehow turn into whatever he wanted and have no choice but to stay put and put up with his shit). Yeah, that didn't work.