Well since you want to comment on my picture, you can see I clearly wasn't desperate for a man.

No, I wasn't clear on microaggression and subtle racism. Why would I have been? Most of the time, I walk around pretty much as a White woman as far as anyone knows. It's only when people have met my parents, etc that the racism comes out. And then, it was pretty blatant.

I take full responsibility for anything my boys went through. Why do you think I left?

I am certainly not simple-minded, quite the opposite. And trust and believe you do not need to feel sorry for my boys, they're all grown men and are just fine. I'm not the first woman and I won't be the last to make a mistake in choosing a partner.

To answer your question, I posted it because it's part of my life. I suppose it's a life lesson, when people show you who they are, believe them, that sort of thing.

Sort of like how your coming to my story to spew insults at me shows me, and all my readers exactly who you are. It's not pretty and boy, do I believe it!

All the best.